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Stop Bullying, Be Helpful Not Hurtful

Posted on May 2, 2016 at 5:00 AM

When we thinking of bullying, we usually think of children and schools, much like the depiction in this very powerful video. As a former special education teacher, my students were all too often on the receiving end of cruel and heartless bullying by their peers.

Yet equally as disturbing….adults that bully.

Why would a grown adult reduce themselves to such behavior? Don’t we expect more from adults? Most especially, don’t we expect more from “professional” adults with college degrees and real-life experience?

If you’ve arrived in a place where you are “large and in charge” and in a position of power, take a step back and ask yourself if you are taking advantage of your position. Remember, just because you might be fortunate enough to be working in a power position doesn’t mean you are any less responsible for your behavior.

Take a minute and watch this video and take a few minutes to reflect on your own behavior. If any part of this resonates with you, then it’s probably time for you to take the narrator’s advice and “stop it.”


“We are all brothers and sisters. I imagine that every person on earth has been affected in some way by the destructive spirit of contention, resentment and revenge. The spirit of envy and hatred has led to some of the most tragic stories in history.

Perhaps there are even times when we recognize the spirit in ourselves. We are not perfect. The people around us are not perfect. People do things that annoy, disappoint, annoy, and anger. Although we cannot look into another‘s heart, we assume we know a bad motive or even a bad person when we see one. This topic of touching others could actually be taught in a two word sermon. When it comes to hating, gossiping, ignoring, ridiculing, holding grudges or wanting to cause harm, please apply the following…

Stop it.

Consider the following questions as a self-test.

Do you harbor grudge against someone else? Do you gossip, even when what you say may be true? Do you exclude, push away, or punish others because of something they have done. Do you secretly envy another? Do you wish to cause harm to someone?

If you answered yes to any of these questions, you may want to apply the two word sermon from earlier.

Stop it.

There is enough heartache and sorrow in this life without our adding to it through our own stubbornness, bitterness, and resentment.

Let us be kind. Let us forgive. Let us talk peacefully to each other. Let us do good to all men. “


Categories: Leadership

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